Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Explode Your Self Confidence Today

By Shivanna G

"You and Your Self"

There are so many benefits to learning to improve your self confidence! For starters, just check out only SOME of the improvements that can happen in your life once you start tackling your self esteem work:

So what can you expect?

• You can finally learn to speak will authority and presence.

• You can finally learn to relate to fear and anxiety as a challenge not as a prison.

• You can finally learn to be self-assured and feel comfortable in any surroundings.

• You can finally learn to be able to hold a conversation with anyone, anytime and feel totally in control and natural.

• You can finally learn to feel a deep inner sense of knowing, that you are finally acting in line with your own chosen values.

• You can finally learn to be naturally called to take bold action - it won't be forced.

"Goals 101"

OK, time to gather up some writing paper, pencil and eraser or pen and handy folder to keep everything together, all in one place.

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Some people like to create a goal book and add all there goals whenever they create a new one. They also write about them each day and keep a record of what happened to move them closer to the fulfilment of a specific goal. This is not required; however if you think it would be useful, please give it a try. So long as you keep the goal in mind throughout the day you will do just fine

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OK, write away! It's your turn to make words, put down some goals....

"Personal Power"

In a nutshell, all of us require these two principles:

1. Direction or a goal plan2. Consistency or perseverance

You can decide upon your objective, you can certainly plan it out, you can create fresh ideas, and there are always a number of plans ready to be put into action in the real world.

Enthusiasm, perseverance and consistency come when you see a vision of what you want to create, be do or have in your life. It comes from within and can propel you to great success in whatever you put your attention on.

Being conscious of enthusiasm is the mark of someone on the road to success. This also translates to confidence to all that see such a person. Any fear that emerges on your journey can certainly be overcome, which the subject of the another lesson, another time (see the ebook).

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"Mixed Emotions"

Did you know that successful people in life are prepared to fail as often as necessary in order to acquire the experience that will eventually lead to their desired success.

In doing so, their willingness and openness to failure is an absolute requirement to the eventual completing of their mission of acquisition of their goal or vision.

It doesn't matter if you want to build a skyscraper or to become a champion athlete. It doesn't matter if you want to build more confidence or becomes a public speaker.

In fact:

The more you expose yourself and face the very real possibility of failure, the more you expose yourself to success also!

"'Self' Direction"

Did you know that the person who is deemed a failure is the one who never exposes him or herself (not literally, of course, but personally? They do this because they fear that there hard work will be worthless and so they do not dare step into new areas of experience or new situations in life.

But you can take charge. Change direction.:

• One way of overcoming a negative emotion you do not want is to passionately attack it with an emotion you DO want.

• A stronger emotion will always overcome a weaker one.

• Emotions you need to free yourself from the negative ones can be called up and you can learn how to call them.

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