How to Build Your Confidence Automatically

By Lila Jirel

Confidence to do a work generally means strong feeling from the inner part of your heart and mind that you can do that work easily. You do not even think of any failure or being unsuccessful while doing that work. If you've confidence, then you can do anything easily than you thought before doing that work or any action. What I think is thinking that you can do what you are doing or going to do, having positive looking to that action and believing that you are confident to do what you are going to do is 50% of that work already done. This concept is quite unbelievable and unacceptable for the beginners but it is true for who have done.

Remember this takes some time, dedication, patience and regular practice and anyone can benefit. How less or more confidence build in you totally depends on yourself.

1. Do not make unnecessary comparison with others. Understand the fact that this world is very much diverse in different aspects and you are different and unique from others in thousands of ways. So why to be worried thinking for example that you couldn't become pilot as your close competitor friend? You may have ability to draw good picture, sing very well and many more. What would be situation of this world if everyone of this world worried thinking one doesn't have the ability, quality or thing that the others have? Rather try to find out what special ability or quality you have that other don't and follow and work accordingly. We all are given many special qualities by God. Only our defect is either inability or careless to find those qualities. One fact that we have to keep in mind is why some of our ancestors or those people who lived in past history were scientists, others doctors, singers and many more? Why did they all not become only scientists, or doctors or singers? Because they had different qualities, abilities of their own. So be a person of your own.

2. Even a very good runner who used to be always first in past can not become first if s/he have thinking that s/he will not be winner.This simple thinking weakens his muscle and whole body, inner power, confidence and finally results turns same one thought before in the beginning. In such case your belief about what you are doing and who you are play as much role as your skills, your way of doing that work. Positive thinking that you will win and should win makes you confident to do that work.

3. Whatever you are doing, always think about positive about that work. If you think about negative part of that work, then you never can not do that correctly and in given time because negative thinking gradually decreases your confidence, inner strength. Rather you should think about positive part. In the course of time while doing any work, try to figure out what you've achieved during that time. If you repeated this, then next time while calculating your achievements, you definitely will have gained more confidence than that of previous one. This shows that you are gaining confidence to do that work and in this way you will feel more confident, energetic.

4. Maintain your balance of mind, body and everything in daily life. You can only do everything you want to do if you have balanced mind and body. If there arise some ups and downs in your balance, then you definitely will start to be worried and your inner strength decreases. Mental balance is even more important here. Because mental imbalance effects your body and social balances as well. So never keep your mind vacant. I mean try to think positive each and every moment. Our mind receives whatever information we send and gives results according to that information. If you think positive then it will have positive effect on our body and other aspects and vice-versa.

5. Believe in yourself. Your perception of who you are plays very important role in building confidence, developing your personalities and success. Always think that you are confident and able to do any work. You are the most important person for you even more than one who you think you love the most. This increases your self-esteem and confidence level automatically.

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